(Adapted from a Zen story)
Dr. Mala Sinha
Ramanand was fed up of his wife’s stinginess. No matter how much money he gave her, she always served him only, watery dal (lentils), boiled potatoes and stale chapattis. When he complained she gave the same answer every time; that things were expensive and they could not afford anything more.
Disgusted he went to his guru and complained about his wife. The master asked him to bring the wife to him.
The next day when the wife stood in front of the master, he raised his clenched fist to her face. She was surprised and said, "What are you doing?" The master asked, "Suppose my fist was always like this, what would you call it?" The woman replied, "A deformity."
The master then opened his palm flat in front of her face and asked, "Suppose it was always like this. What then?" She answered, "Another kind of deformity."
The master smiled and said, "If you understand this much, you are a good wife. Now go with your husband."
The man did not come back to the master again.